tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8059603528490826069.post3625857724788757467..comments2023-11-03T03:10:11.349-07:00Comments on Debabblings: What would Emily Post do?Debrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09742678442997900246noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8059603528490826069.post-43315118786483981962008-10-24T08:19:00.000-07:002008-10-24T08:19:00.000-07:00I was pretty much going to say what the McKights s...I was pretty much going to say what the McKights said. If it were me, the worst thing would be to become a project, but if a friend asked me sincerely, not pressuring me, but asked sincerely how we were and if there was anything they could do to help and then leave the ball in our court, that would be best.Daisy Paigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05660203283643761038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8059603528490826069.post-22149779298375231832008-10-17T10:07:00.000-07:002008-10-17T10:07:00.000-07:00I would say just contiune being as neighborly as y...I would say just contiune being as neighborly as you have been. Dont change the way you treat these people. Dont be rude but dont be overly nice. Nobody likes to feel like a charity case and I am almost sure this is more embarrasing for them then it is for you. As you contiune to treat them with the respect they deserve if and when they need help maybe they will feel they can come to you. In secert you can pray for them and their situation.The McKnightshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08598740922012285329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8059603528490826069.post-39887100441248069872008-10-17T09:18:00.000-07:002008-10-17T09:18:00.000-07:00Ah. You're dealing with an elephant. I think tha...Ah. You're dealing with an elephant. <BR/><BR/>I think that you guys did the right thing. As neighbors you *should* show concern. If you're visiting, I think that its a good thing to ask genuinely how they are and thereby give them an opportunity to connect or vent. <BR/><BR/>Difficult stuff.The Leithead Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01314466523848650946noreply@blogger.com